Several
months ago I made a trip to Chicago as part of a Paulist board investigating whether
Chicago Theological Union would be a good location for the formation of Paulist
seminarians. It certainly would be, but
that is not why I bring this up. Rather,
while I was there chatting with several of the theology professors I discovered
a curious fact which I had not known. It
is this: In Catholic Social teaching the
basic unit is the family. The basic, fundamental unit of society is the
family. Isn’t that amazing?
Being
an American, and something of an individualist to boot, I had always assumed
that the basic unit of society was the individual. The single, solitary, person. But it makes perfect sense, given
Catholicism’s emphasis on the interconnectedness of all things and the communal
nature of reality, that the basic unit of society, and hence of rights, is the
family.
Fascinating! I mention this of course because today we
celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. Even though our society doesn’t always fully
recognize it, families are so very important.
So today we want to recognize and emphasize that importance. Like the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and
Joseph, every Christian family is called to be a holy family, which is to say a
family where Jesus is truly present and active.
These
days the Church seems to be taking the family more seriously. We have just had an extraordinary synod of
bishops on the family. It met in Rome in
October, and if you followed the news stories about it you will remember that
extraordinary things were said about families at that synod. Especially about families that experience
divorce and remarriage, and families that have gay and lesbian members, and
even same sex couple families. It was
truly an extraordinary synod.
And
that is not all. It will be followed
this coming October by another “ordinary” synod of bishops, again on the
subject of the family, and I would not be surprised if that synod too is
extraordinary.
Then
next September Pope Francis is coming to the United States, to
Philadelphia. Why? To get a good Philly cheesesteak
sandwich? No. He is coming to attend the 8th
World Meeting of FAMILIES! Maybe a
family from our parish will go to Philadelphia to meet the Pope?
So
the Church is paying a lot of attention to families, and addressing many of the
pressures, problems and social developments that affect families. There are many different forms of families
today: traditional families, empty nester families, single parent families,
blended families, same-sex families, and many other permutations. Families face pressures from economic stress,
changing gender roles, migration, war and refugee issues, from unrealistic and
too many expectations, and many other issues.
Families need help.
In
the face of all these pressures and challenges, all families are called to be
holy families. What made the first Holy
Family genuinely holy was the presence of Jesus. So today, it is the presence of Jesus in any
family that makes it holy. In any
family where there is genuine compassion, care, respect, support, forgiveness,
understanding and love, that is a holy family.
Even if that a family does not fit a perfect ideal, it is still a holy
family. And any family that is torn by
dissention, jealousy, mean-spiritedness, power-plays and hard heartedness, even
if they had their wedding in the Vatican with three octogenarian cardinals and are
prominent in their local parish, that is not a holy family.
Families
are very, very important. They either
greatly help us to grow, or they can block and hinder us. We don’t choose our families. We have to play the hand we are dealt. I was very fortunate and grew up in a stable,
warm, supportive and loving family. It
should be like that for everyone. But in
my business I also see that far too many families are not at all ideal, and
some are downright destructive and evil.
While
the Church recognizes the great importance of families and supports families as
best it can, Jesus also radically relativizes the importance of the family of
birth. In the third chapter of St.
Mark’s Gospel a rather curious thing happens when Jesus is preaching in a
packed house. Jesus’ Mother and brothers
show up wanting to see Him, waiting outside.
The crowd in the house tells Jesus that “Your mother and brothers and sisters are outside asking for you.” Jesus “looking
at those who sat around him said ‘Here are my mother and my brothers! Whoever does the will of God is my brother
and sister and mother.’”
Our
call, to every one of us, is to be that Holy Family of Jesus, just like Mary
and Joseph were so long ago and so far away.
By
our Baptism we have been reborn into that other, much larger, and much much
holier family, the family of Jesus.
[Today at this Mass we welcome into that holy family SAT 5 = Henry Alan Hodges and Cole Bruce
Johnson. SUN 7:30 None
SUN 9:00 = Torin Joseph Michaels
SUN 11:30 = Tatyana Miranda
Anatalio SUN 5:30 = ?]
Today
as we celebrate the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph, we are also
celebrating our call to be a holy family, a place where Jesus can truly be
found. Happy Feast Day!