We are now into Summer. Mostly hot
and humid. Or VERY hot. So it is a good time for us to tidy up the last of the
two Spiritual Works of Mercy, thereby completing my overview of the Corporal
and Spiritual Works of Mercy during this Extraordinary Jubilee Year of Mercy.
The two works we have not yet
looked at are “Comfort the afflicted” and “Pray for the living and the dead.”
Comforting the afflicted is very
broad. This can be accomplished just by spending time with someone who is sick
or grieving or hurting in some way. Active listening is a wonderful way to
comfort people who are hurting. You don’t need to give advice or answers or
tell them what to do. In fact, it is better if you do not. Just listen. It is
not as easy as it sounds, but it is very powerful, and it is healing. Sometimes
a phone call or a note letting someone know you were thinking of them can be a
positive work. Who is afflicted in your family,
neighborhood, school or work place? Who is lonely, upset, dejected, or hurting?
I don’t think it will take you a long time to find the afflicted. The afflicted
are all around us. And if you are one of the afflicted, you can still do this
spiritual work of mercy. You don’t have to have your business and your life all
together in order to do this. Sometimes the best healers are those who have
been wounded themselves and so can empathize and understand more deeply another
person’s hurt. Comforting the afflicted is a great spiritual work of mercy and
something all of us can do. All we need is patience and acceptance.
The last work of mercy to look at
is to pray for the living and the dead. That is because prayer makes a
difference. It may not make a difference in the way we want or hope, but it
does make a difference. This is because it makes God the Father very happy to
see His children express their care and concern for each other. And no matter
how rich or poor, no matter how educated or not you are, no matter how eloquent
or not, no matter even how holy or not you are, you can pray for the living and
for the dead.
Praying for the dead is a
particularly Catholic (and Orthodox) thing to do. We know we do not change
God’s mind. We know we cannot change the free choices of another. But we also
know that we are not individual atoms unconnected to each other. Somehow we are
all in this together, and the salvation of one depends on the salvation of all.
There is a real bond between us. This is why we ask the saints to pray for us,
and while we pray for each other, including our dead. The Holy Spirit connects
us together as the one Body of Christ, and the Holy Spirit is stronger than
death. So we pray for our friends, relatives, and even our enemies not only
when they are here with us on earth, but even after their death. And we ask
them to pray for us, because we are all connected in the grand scheme of the
Kingdom of God.
And so we come to the end of our
tour of the Works of Mercy. The important thing is not to able to name them or
know about them but to DO them. Go and practice the corporal and spiritual
works of mercy.
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